By Amy J. Fillmore – Author and blogger
In movies we often see women receiving oral sex while lying on their backs. This is admittedly the default position and a lot of women do find it easier to orgasm in this manner.
However, that absolutely doesn’t mean that you can’t switch it up a bit. If your partner is able to orgasm on her back, don’t let that become your only mode of oral.
Women can cum in all sorts of positions. Practice can actually make perfect—so don’t give up. If you’re already blowing your partner’s mind with oral and you want to try something new, a simple change of position can take things to a whole other level.
Traditional
The traditional position, in which the woman lies on her back, is by far the most popular. This position offers you the opportunity to lie down on your stomach as you eat until your heart’s content. Your partner’s legs can be flat against the bed, drawn up close to her bottom, or wrapped around your neck.
But, traditional style pussy-eating doesn’t have to be traditional by any means. By placing her feet on your back or neck, this will open her pussy while also giving her a slutty feeling, which many women get off on.
On the other hand, she can draw her legs all the way up to her breasts, in a kind of fetal position, so that you can reach both her vagina and anus for licking and fingering fun. This can also enhance that lewd feeling that helps to release so many women’s inhibitions.
Traditional style also gives you a lot of freedom to use your hands to play with her boobs, hold her hips, finger her butthole, etc.
Legs Up
As a bit of a variation on traditional style, your partner can lift her legs up in the air to expose her pussy to you. You’ll come in from behind her raised legs to eat her pussy between her legs.
The Edge
The Dominatrix
69
One reason 69-ing is so popular is that it’s super comfortable. Forget the neck-related stresses of other pussy eating positions—the 69 position is comfortable for everyone involved and it allows you to get some pleasure of your own.
Man on top 69 and woman on top 69 are variations on this position which are equally fun. In fact, rolling from side 69 to woman on top 69 to side 69 to man on top 69 is a great way to keep mixing up your positions while maintaining constant mouth-to-pussy contact.
The only problem with 69-ing is that things can heat up so quickly that it’s difficult to concentrate on your partner. This often leads overly-excited men to wildly thrust in their partner’s mouth rather than focusing on their oral technique.
So, if you’re in the 69 position and you find yourself getting carried away, ask your partner to take a break so that you can focus 100% on her pleasure. Any woman will appreciate this sentiment, but some may prefer having your dick in the mix as a turn on.
If your partner prefers to lick or pull your cock, have her do so in a light teasing manner rather than full-force. This will help you to concentrate on her.
Standing 69
If you’re rather strong, or your partner is rather light, standing 69 is for you. And, if you’re strong and your partner is light, well, prepare to do this for hours on end because it is awesome.
The question that most couples have about standing 69 is, “How do we get into this position?” and that is a really fair question. Most couples prefer to start out in a kneeling or sitting 69 position and then you will lift your partner to the standing position.
How to get into a standing 69 position
However, if your partner is rather acrobatic, she could do a quick handstand as you squat. Once you’ve got her legs around your shoulders, just lift her up and use your hands to support her hips and back as you tongue her clit while all the blood rushes to her head.
68
Doggy style
Forbidden Fruit
The Butler
The Drive-Thru
Ear Muffs
The Flag Pole
Eve’s Ecstasy
Reverse Ecstasy
Feedbag
Head Rush
Cream Pie In The Sky
For cream pie in the sky, your partner will need be fairly flexible, as she’ll be resting in a position that is similar to the yoga position of the plough. This is a rather difficult position that is pretty straining on the neck, ribs and lungs.
However, if you’ve got yourself a yoga girl, she’ll have no problem with letting you eat her cream pie in the sky all day.
For this position, your partner will lie on her back on the bed. She’ll raise her legs straight up into the sky and then roll back onto her neck and flip her legs over her head. You’ll crouch over her very exposed nether regions to suck her cunt until she creams.
Lap Bondage
North SOMF
South SOMF
Coming up: Role play Fantasies
In the next chapter you’ll see suggestions for unleashing your inner fantasies.